Relationship!!

To My Friends Who Are...........SINGLE 給我單身朋友們 Love is like a butterfly. The more you chase it, the more it eludes you. But
愛就像一隻蝴蝶。越要追牠，卻越要逃避。
if you just let it fly, it will come to you when you least expect it. Love can
如果就隨牠自由的飛，牠會在你最不注意時飛向你。
make you happy but often it hurts, but love's only special when you give it
愛使人快樂，卻常傷害人。但只有在你把愛給了一個真正值得付出的人時，是最珍貴的。
to someone who is really worth it. So take your time and choose the best.

To My Friends Who Are............NOT SO SINGLE 給我那不是單身的朋友們Love isn't about becoming somebody else's 'perfect person.' It's about
愛不能使他 /她成為一個 '完美的人 '
finding someone who helps you become the best person you can be.
它卻可以使你找到一個幫你成長的他 /她

To My Friends Who Are............PLAYBOY/GIRL TYPE
給我玩世不恭的朋友們 Never say 'I love you' if you don't care. Never talk about feelings if they
如果你不在乎，不要說 '我愛你 '。如果他們不在時，不要討論自已的感受
aren't there. Never touch a life if you mean to break a heart. Never look
不要涉足會使他人心碎的生活。
in the eye when all you do is lie. The cruelest thing a guy can do to a girl is
說謊時，不要看著眼睛。
to let her fall in love when he doesn't intend to catch her fall and it works
最殘忍的事莫過於男人讓女人愛他，卻是逢場作戲。反之亦然 …
both ways...

To My Friends Who Are............MARRIED
給我已婚的朋友們 Love is not about 'it's your fault', but 'I'm sorry.' Not 'where are you',
不要老是說 '這是你的錯 '，何不說說 '對不起 '。
but 'I'm right here.' Not 'how could you', but 'I understand.' Not 'I
不要老是問 '你去哪裡了 '，何不說說 '我就在這兒等著你 '。
不要老是問 '你怎麼會這麼作？ '，何不說說 '我了解你 '。
wish you were', but 'I'm thankful you are.'
不要老是說 '我希望你這麼做 '，何不說說 '我感謝你的一切 '。

To My Friends Who Are............HEARTBROKEN 給我心碎的朋友們Heartbreaks last as long as you want and cut as deep as you allow them to
心碎的時間和傷害的深度，完全取決於你自已。
go. The challenge is not how to survive heartbreaks but to learn from them.
難的是，如何從中學習，而不是從傷痛中爬起。

To My Friends Who Are............NAIVE
給我所有天真的朋友們 How to be in love: Fall but don't stumble, be consistent but not too
要如何戀愛？ --就愛吧。不要欲言又止；要互相協調，不要太固執；
persistent, share and never be unfair, understand and try not to demand,
要分享，且千萬不要有不公平；要了解，別命令；
and get hurt but never keep the pain. 受傷後不要再記恨。

To My Friends Who Are............POSSESSIVE 給我積極的朋友們It breaks your heart to see the one you love happy with someone else but
看到你所愛的他 /她和其他人很快樂使你心碎
it's more painful to know that the one you love is unhappy with you.
但知道你所愛的他 /她是和你在一起不快樂，令人更加的傷心。

To My Friends Who Are............AFRAID TO CONFESS 給我害怕去承認的朋友們Love hurts when you break up with someone. It hurts even more when
當你和他 /她分手時，愛受到傷害
someone breaks up with you. But love hurts the most when the person you
當他 /她和你分手時，更是傷痛
love has no idea how you feel.
但傷害最深的是你所愛的他 /她完全無法了解你的感受

To My Friends Who Are............STILL HOLDING ON 給我那還在等待的朋友們A sad thing about life is when you meet someone and fall in love, only to
人生最傷心的事，是你和他 /她愛情長跑了多年，最後的結局卻不如所望。
find out in the end that it was never meant to be and that you have wasted years on someone who wasn't worth it. If he isn't worth it now he's not
' 如果他/ 她現在讓你覺得不值得付出，那麼一年，甚至十年後，都不會值得付出的。
going to be worth it a year or 10 years from now. Let go.....
讓他 /她走吧

TO ALL MY FRIENDS.......
給我所有的朋友們 My wish for you is a man/women whose love is honest, strong, mature,
我竭誠祝福你們愛著一個誠實、強壯、成熟、衷心、有衝勁、保護你、積極、值得付出和無私的他 /她。
never-changing, uplifting, protective, encouraging, rewarding and unselfish.

wat FRIENDSHIP mean to you..

Wat friendship mean to you? Can we buy friendship ?Can we judge friendship ?or Wat can we do to have a strong friendship?Wat type of firendship inbetween you and me ?

Recently dunno why i heard alot friendship problem from CS ,Dan ,Jaz ofcz plus myself ....i start asking all those question on above to myself .I guess friendship not that simple to buiding inbetween .It build strong time by time been together with the other person so called " friend "...
Let's gossip about my friend experience.CS my " someone '.I meet few of his friend during BKK trip ,they are fun plus bitchy with it i happy be with so do CS.Even he told me actualy he didnt really hang out with them at SBY.Maybe at that time i didnt really understand wat he trying to tell me.Doesnt matter. Lately i saw their outing photo ,but without CS.I actualy struggel fr quite sometimes to ask him abt it..until 1 day i really cant tahan liao...i asked him ...then i know the whole story...I can said i feel sad about wat happen to their friendship which it i can feel n been b4.Eventho CS always said he dun care ( as usual ) ,but actualy he does care about the friendship inbetween.If me are him ,i think i wil do the same thing ,dont bother ,get angry and dissapointed ...wat i had to said is ,we cant force a friendship ,if ur sincereness not been apreciated ,so maybe show ur truth heart to friend to someone or friend who love you and feel pround to have you as friend.
Dan,my class instructor the cute 1 n idiot 1...had the problm w the other instructor too...until just now me ,Ryan n Dan hang out for a dinner then i knew the reason why he n Edward not talking anymore...Hmm..both of them had a same charactor of never say sorry .Eventualy this problem can be solve by a simple " Sorry " ,if they want it to..But seem no 1 willing to step for it.I feel sad about it ,i do i always do care of whoever i knew feeling and care of them .Me n Ryan was trying so hard to console n telling Dan how to do nest for this friendship...hope he get wat we mean.And i really hope thing can be solve before my birthday party at their place ,if not i wil need do something for them.Just worry they said am too BZ body ....i stil remmeber the time we clubbing n drunk together ....shouting " happy birthday " together ...hmmm...i think i should do something but in right timing n place ....
About my friendship...hmm...i over all happy with all my best,closed plus good friend now.Bcz they can tahan my weirdness ,sentimental plus moody charactor....But after been throw something ,i start realized they really important to me and am great to have them Sarah,Jane ,Jazreel,Bao Bei ,Tomy .I think i done a good job to build friendship with them by do anything for them nomatter how bz i am, how tired i am ,or how poor i am..hehee...and ofcz they also done alot thing for me which it i dunno how to pay back...untill today ,no matter how i have been hurt b4 ,i wil stil stated with my way to be friend with them or to new friend like my " ah GU " WL who like i knew for long time...always got something to chat with and bitch with .Yeah,am bicth ,so dun try !!haha
How about your friendship or ur way been friend ?no matter wat ,i believed tis : if u sincere and be friend with other with your truth heart ,the other part sure will feel it ....and they wil appreciate it ,if they are not meaning they not ur friend or not worth your to waste your time for him /her .So u can say tis infront of his face " Bye " friend " or Fxxk off "..opp! sorry. Charos !! ( in philipine mean dun care )..

Wah! is 3am in the morning !! tis is me,when atlk abot friendship or relationship i cant talk non stop ,so if you need someone share call me,text me ,come n see me or come pick me up for tea or drink.There no charge ,totally free .Hhaaa...is time to slip liao...my beauty sleep over liao...jia lat...Chao ...

Call me "KINA "

Is was a special weekend for past Friday n Saturday.Sista Bren and Ah Ni ( short name from parent ) taking their wedding photo.Her 2 parent ,sister and 2 childhood friend Jo n Taf afcz plus me went to support her at bridal shop .Earlier on we actualy go with her when she trying her gown for photo shooting,we always like to stick together where ever we go or activity .Hhaha..seeing Bren put on full make up plus her favourate gown,the feeling was so happy ,happy bcz she had her happiness .Ofcz Ah Ni also excited with the photo shoot too even he actualy most of the time just wearing black or white suite ..hahaa..that why we teasing him to wear the bling2 suite which is ugly to us..ahaha..I feel great can take few shoot in the studio while they request to take with their parent ,but i guess i didnt look good bcz i didnt groom myself b4 out from home...( better make sure they photoshop the pic )...the shooting end evening but b4 that i was heading to gym so just meet them again at nite for dinner.
We didnt went out for drink instead stay in hotel room chating due to tiring dayz.The next day we went to Holiday plaza for massage at my cousin shop,i did my 2 hour body massage make me refresh so do them hav their aroma theraphy plus foot massage for parent n sister..but Brenda went for her hair cut...it was a shock to me,she actualy cut her long hair into " pop" style hair which make her look fresh too...sometime is good to hav some change in life...Other then massage ofcz never end without buying DVD plus some cloth plus shoes for the lady....Lilian ( Brenda sister ) car are flooded with their new stuff...We end the day at " Gu Za Rang " with Taiwanese style porriage restaurant .Am great they all like it .hehe..especially Brenda dad, he ate 4 bowl of porriage ..wow..hehe...
Well,the weeknd was like spending with closed friend like family member.Brenda parent really adorable ,Mama hav giving me a new name : Kina ( hokkien ), and she asked me a shock question : you prefered Malaysia or Singapore gal as galfriend? ,the best part is : when u get merriage must invite us ok ! .....^^. i was like look at Jo ,Taf plus Lilian .....sweat!....hahaa...Papa also cute, he shake hand with when we about leave each other..ahaha..make me pai seh..ahaha...

Damn, i missed them now...

Drunk nitez

Is happen last saturday actualy ,was plan go clubbing shake our stress out with my gym buddy Wei Lieh and 3 of our intructor from Philipine .Evrybody was so excited including me but especially Edward..ahaha..he been mention about the nite out since weekday b4 saturday.
We meet up at their place after gym and get ourself dress up.Ireen was keep asking our opinion about wat to wear at that moment ,here we can see how cute is she .well,i choose the safe way for the nite out with long sleeves black shirt plus my blue skinny jean and my favourate white Zara sneaker...here we go clubbing ! and Wei Lieh 1st nite out at JB..hehe
When we there we decided go for a club named Dolce ,since there is 5 of us,so we get a bottle of liquir rather then per-entry RM40 but with just a single drink .Very soon we get drunk because of Dan keep shouting " bottom up " ...i feel dizzy an hour later .Maybe they dun really like house dance kinda music,seem they dun really enjoy..but not me, am ok with any music especially when am drunk ..hehehe...And am sure Wei Lieh also enjoy at that time with someone he keen ..heheh! Too bad the club closed at 3am, if not am sure wil dance till the floor tiles crack..wowowoww...at that moment i actualy thinking someone who at BKK for his short trip ,mising the moment we dance together at the party .....
The party not just end with the music stop.It can be a begining for my gym buddy Wei Lieh ..hehe...and a begining for me too to get more friend with them.Overall i great meet them ,they are nice person .
Guys!! cant wait for our next outing....tis time we go CABANA then...( eventhough i 've been so many times )

Point of relationship

When come to midnight ,i always had many thought while listern to song or after chat with friend or someone i care.
Early on chat w my friend WL ,talk abt relationship,he gave me alot of thought that i never been think of.A relationship is to give and take ,not too hoping so much ,take it eazy no pressure .The more u hope for the more u wil got the dissapointment.But then how many people can do it that way??
Then i had chat w someone who i care so much ,we always wil had a bit of argument when talk abt issue of relationship ,commitment or trust inbetween.Maybe wat he mention are right ,since we dont have any commitment yet ,why should i bother so much or think so much about scandal life ,bcz that was his freedom .Even thought he said that i choose to trust he just mention it as sample .No dought im a person full with wild guess ,and think too much or sensitive .ya,i wil .if u the question in my mind not clear from you.Maybe am just been curious or been affected by past relationship .But i guess is my prblem.My problem is i cant accept reality of life or reality of relationship of the circle.Evryone had his point ,so is for you to accept it.For me im choose to continue with the future that we cant see .Wil stil insist wat i been thought of until one day,the reality and times tel me to let go to accept...i wil ,i know i wil and i hav to ...
So ,im telling myself,wipe my tears ,give a smile ,step out and start walking .When it happen it will...i had not much time living in this earth ,if belong to me it will...if not ,give myself a big cry ,the next day or next2 day i have to move on...i hope all my friend also .No matter wat happen ,i wil stil wish family ,friend of me live life better then me .And i know they wil ..hehe..

Day with friend...

SATURDAY..i had spending whole day with my closed friend Datin jalan2 makan at Sutera mall .infact need to do some research for new shop design of a bird nest shop...so both of us pretending wanted to buy bird nest ( i guess we seem like a rich ppl but not )surprisingly the sales girl had an good attidue giving us a good knowledge about bird nest,now i realized the expensive " Swet Yen " or " guan yen "was actualy been process by bleach with color...then sell it as a limited kinda " Yen "....guys or tai tai u all been cheated ...
And then stil manage meet WL when we had our so so lunch ...and then need to accompany Datin go buy groceries at Careful ...like auntie.hehe
After tht tho gg gym b4 gg clubbing tonite ,but was so pissed when i reach to gym the class for body pump been changed timing...since Datin alrd booked his foot massage apment,so i got spair time ..decided to go cacth a movie alone ..hell..i watched a crap movie " dragon ball"...waste my $....Feel sorry to WL bcz was agreed gym tgther ...but guess he ok ...monday ok WL...( WL is my gym buddy now )
So back hme get some rest for tonite party with my dearest friend Jaz who never like to go clubbing but she call me tis morning to asked me out ...guess she want to test market after she slim down ..^^....we went to club named Cabana ( with it Hot now in JB ,infact it just boring with all the str8 guy or siao mei mei who didnt dress well )...but stil manage to meet few of my friend there .But we left early around 1am and siting to hav a tea opposite the club...while siting at the cafe ,there is another club playing a nicer music tht we all mention ,i think next time wil gg there better..ahhaa...provided i stil got kakis to go with..ahaha...
But thank to my friend accompany me out tonite ,if not i wil stay and do nothing,bcz JB really had not much friend ...sienz nah...
Even i was out tonite ,enjoying part of the music the Djee palyed ,but my mind was thinking of someone who far from me also gg out clubbing w friend...by now i guess he alrd drunk .I hope he stil remmebr our happy moment end of 2008 and begining of 2009...heiz..i miss u CSJF ...( I try control my emotion ,but i guess i stil failed )....are u home yet ?are u drunk ?are u ok?are u missed me ?....all tis question wil just answer in his heart ...Well,silly me wil stay until got his reply said his home.....God pls sent tis to him...but i think i wait for nothing tonite .....
Well,here goes my dayz....bored but ok....

Some Say That

SOME SAY THAT ....
Maybe friend who closed to me wil wonder why recently i always used this sentence. Well tis actualy is my name Some Say That = Sam Sei Tat ...and again thank to my sweet friend Liza who is gorgeous ,creative and sweet among all my cha bo friend ( opp!! guess the gal wil scream on me !! ) .
Actualy i asked for her help recomanded by Ms.J when am headache for my name card .Liza come out with this " Some Say That a good design requires an eye for detail ...But i say it resembles my name ...". It was the first time ever i live a life for 31 year i start like my name !how shame i feld .......( god damn! am so old by now ) Thot back i even ever thot change my name..bcz when my name read in cantonese it sound like this " Sie Tak " meaning " can die "....hmmmm
Well,thank my dear friend Liza .Now you or who ever can just call me my name Sam Sei Tat....haha...or my christian name is u pronounce properly...not Wing,not Wani but Wayne ....here a way make u eazy hur....just read it like " whennn" ..wasnt it abt the same..ahaha...( sometimes i myself also pronounce wrongly..^^ )